The Successful Addict

What is the successful addict program?

RETREATS

The 4-day retreats are held in world-renowned Sedona, Arizona. Removing yourself from your everyday environment gives you the invaluable opportunity to connect and build community with other high-achievers in recovery. (Lodging and meals included.)

COMMUNITY

To beat this addiction, you need to find a tribe of like-minded you can recover with. Recovery needs to be fun, engaging, and collaborative. When recovery becomes repetitive, boring, and monotonous… relapse is imminent.

ACCOUNTABILITY

You can’t expect this addiction to just go away on its own. Our group uses a daily accountability system to keep you sober and connected to the group. Having other men to support you is how you will achieve long-term recovery.

COACHING

You’ll participate in weekly coaching calls with your small group that run all year long. We don’t waste time on these calls. Our formula is extremely efficient while still allowing the men to connect and form friendships.

HOW DOES THIS PROGRAM WORK?

The Successful Addict is a monthly membership. When you join, you’ll get access to everything on an ongoing basis, and can remain in your group for as long as you need. When you decide that you’re ready to pursue recovery on your own, you can end your membership. Until that point, we will be here for you.

Application & Interview

Fill out an application and schedule an interview with The Successful Addict’s founder, Roland Cochrun. If selected, you’ll begin the program immediately.
Weekly Zoom Group Meetings

You will meet your group the very next week on Zoom and meet weekly after that.
Biannual Retreats

Next, you will come to your first retreat in Sedona, Arizona, where you will spend 4 days dedicated to connection and recovery. This program includes two intensives each year. While not mandatory, attending both is strongly suggested for your recovery.
Daily Accountability

Your private group will have accountability check-ins that happen daily on your own time using an app on your phone.

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ROLAND COCHRUN

FOUNDER, THE SUCCESSFUL ADDICT

Roland Cochrun received his Doctorate in Physiotherapy at Pacific University College of Health Professions. He has completed training at the Institute of Sexual Health for Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma Treatment for infidelity and compulsive sexual behavior disorders. Since selling his rehab facility in 2019, Roland has been hosting small group intensives for high-achievers.

Roland is a serial entrepreneur, business owner, and investor in many industries. While Roland continues to be an authority in the medical field and personal branding industry, his full-time job is running small intensives for men who have developed sex and pornography addictions. Roland has a talent for creating quick transformations and deep group connections. After experiencing one of his intensives, guests agree that hosting small group retreats is what Roland was designed to do.

Learn More About Roland’s Story

“I’m so grateful I met Roland. I use his formula every day of my life. It’s simple and makes change happen instantly. I have hired a lot of professionals over the years and this was the missing piece.”

-Male, 58, Washington

“This intensive is like years of deep work all condensed into 4 days. That’s why I came here, to get condensed results.”

-Male, 36, Oregon

“Words cannot explain what happened at the retreat. I have never felt love like that from a group before. I finally feel like I have everything I need.”

-Male, 41, South Carolina

THIS PROGRAM WORKS. HERE’S WHY.

INPERSON
Recovering from sex addiction often requires a massive pattern interrupt. Most men who have beaten this addiction in time to save their marriage will tell you that attending an in-person intensive was what finally allowed them to live a normal life.
CO-LEARNING
This is what makes The Successful Addict retreat so much different than the other sex addiction intensives out there. Co-learning—better known as the “mastermind effect”—is a recovery method that involves using a group of other men to get to the root cause of your addiction.
CONNECTION
It’s been proven that the opposite of addiction is NOT sobriety… it’s connection. This is the primary objective of this program’s retreats: to connect you with like-minded men and give you access to a shared formula that you can use to recover, together.
ACCOUNTABILITY
The Successful Addict’s accountability system is easy to use and can be done on your cell phone/tablet from anywhere in the world. You will be given precise accountability instructions that will help you maintain a connection with the men in your group and keep you sober.
DRIVEN MEN
Not all sex addicts have the same level of commitment. Roland takes personal responsibility for creating a vetted community of driven men who are willing to do anything to recover and save their marriage.
CONTINUOUS SUPPORT
This program ends when you are ready for it to end. Stay for as long as you need. You can attend up to 2 intensives each year, and you can continue to do so until you’re ready to do recovery on your own.

INPERSON

Recovering from sex addiction often requires a massive pattern interrupt. Most men who have beaten this addiction in time to save their marriage will tell you that attending an in-person intensive was what finally allowed them to live a normal life.

CO-LEARNING

This is what makes The Successful Addict retreat so much different than the other sex addiction intensives out there. Co-learning—better known as the “mastermind effect”—is a recovery method that involves using a group of other men to get to the root cause of your addiction.

CONNECTION

It’s been proven that the opposite of addiction is NOT sobriety… it’s connection. This is the primary objective of this program’s retreats: to connect you with like-minded men and give you access to a shared formula that you can use to recover, together.

ACCOUNTABILITY

The Successful Addict’s accountability system is easy to use and can be done on your cell phone/tablet from anywhere in the world. You will be given precise accountability instructions that will help you maintain a connection with the men in your group and keep you sober.

DRIVEN MEN

Not all sex addicts have the same level of commitment. Roland takes personal responsibility for creating a vetted community of driven men who are willing to do anything to recover and save their marriage.

CONTINUOUS SUPPORT

This program ends when you are ready for it to end. Stay for as long as you need. You can attend up to 2 intensives each year, and you can continue to do so until you’re ready to do recovery on your own.

MY ADDICTION STORY.

When I discovered that I was a sex addict, I was willing to do whatever it took to get sober and save my marriage.

In business, I had overcome significant challenges before. So, I was familiar with getting help when I didn’t know how to help myself.

Over the past 10 years, entrepreneurs have cracked the code to success. If you want to accelerate your journey, you need:

A mastermind group of like-minded men you respect and admire.
A formula you can use with other men to find your blindspots and change your mind.
A coach who facilitates the mastermind group who has accomplished what the other men in the group are trying to accomplish.

I have used the formula above to build multi-million dollar businesses in 3 different industries. So, when I went searching for sex addiction treatment, I was looking for a similar group.

I couldn’t find it.

The 12-step groups that I attended were fine…but there’s not much deep connection that happens, and I found that there was very little lasting sobriety in the room.

Therapy was working well, but I needed more support in between appointments.

I went to in-person intensives, read all the books, listened to every podcast, and had multiple therapists at one time. I was going to two 12-step meetings each week and had three groups of men from my intensives that I connected with weekly.

But, it wasn’t the same. I knew I needed a mastermind group with structure, comradery, and accountability.

That is why I started The Successful Addict.

Having a group like this with daily connection, weekly meetings, and multi-day in person intensives is the key to accelerating your recovery, healing your marriage, and sober living.

It worked for me, it’s working for our current members, and I know it can work for you. If you’re ready to make a strong, serious commitment to your recovery, this community is where you need to be.

See you at our next retreat?

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

What is the difference between The Successful Addict and other sex addiction intensives?

The biggest difference is that this program is more than just an intensive. It’s designed to give you everything you need to recover. Deep connection with men you’ve met in person. Weekly Zoom calls with the group in between retreats. A daily accountability system to keep your sobriety top of mind and give you a feeling of support.

Most retreats waste too much time on things that could be done virtually or at your therapy appointments. The Successful Addict preserves our four days together to do only things that must be done in person or as a group. The rest will be addressed virtually.
Do I need multi-day intensives to fully recover from this addiction?

Intensives accelerate your recovery. One 4-day retreat will total more than 30 hours dedicated to your recovery. If you’re not married, speed is not as important. However, if you’re currently married, it’s recommended that you accelerate recovery to prevent further harm to the relationship.
How many men are in each intensive?

The Successful Addict’s groups are very small. We only allow a maximum of 10 men in a group. This allows us to maximize connection and individual attention.
How long do men stay in the program?

Members stay until they decide that they’re ready to pursue recovery on their own. When you join, you pay a monthly membership fee that includes two four-day intensives each year, lodging and meals, weekly coaching calls with your group, and our daily check-in system.
Are all of the men in the program financially successful?

We have served men from a variety of professional backgrounds such as lawyers, doctors, professional athletes, business/sales professionals, entrepreneurs, and more. While most men in our retreats have experienced financial success at some point in their lives, what matters most is their mutual commitment to recovery and their marriages.
What is the success rate of the program?

Our success is as high as one can make it. You’ll have daily accountability check-ins with a group of men whom you have met in person. This addiction has a way of bonding men in a way that I have never witnessed before. If you let them support you, you will recover at the highest success rate possible.
Are lodging and meals included in the program?

Yes, your room and meals during the intensive hours will be included in the cost of the program. You will be able to attend two intensives each year with your group as a part of the program
Where are the intensives held?

The intensives are held in Sedona, Arizona. Sedona has a special way of connecting people; there isn’t a more healing place on earth.
Why do I need to have seen a therapist before coming to the intensive?

Our in-person intensives are designed to do the things that you won’t get in therapy. Connection with other sex addicts, accountability, group work, co-learning, and unplugging from the distractions of day-to-day life to focus on your recovery. We would strongly advise you to continue working with a licensed therapist in a one-on-one setting to achieve a full recovery. It’s not worth risking your marriage if this addiction were to come back.
Is your program only for married men?

Not necessarily. We have had men in dating relationships, engaged to be married, and men who were recently divorced. The most important factor is not the relationship status, but your commitment to making recovery a priority.